What's Your Best Advice?

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"Assemble your support team before your little one arrives," my aunt advised when my baby bump was just starting to show. A few weeks later, a friend echoed her words. "Figure out where the new mom support groups are, when play dates meet, and the resources around you before your son arrives. If you wait until after he arrives, you just won't have the time." And turns out, it was some of the best advice I got as a mom-to-be. Know where and who you can turn to for support.

Your life changes in ways you could never imagine or plan for when you become a parent. And when you are overwhelmed with diaper changes and midnight feedings, it important to know whom you can turn to for advice and support. Karla Trotman, local mom and owner of BellyButtonBoutique.com says, "It's ok to feel scared. Call a seasoned mom and talk about it. It can be lonely feeling like you are the only one." Fortunately, Media has a number of wonderful resources for new parents, including a diverse community of supportive moms.

Recently, I asked a number of local moms for their best parenting advice and resources. And Media moms responded with wonderful reminders and resources that parents, both new and not-so-new, can benefit from.

Take It Day-By-Day
Heather, a Media mom of two, says don't sweat the small stuff. "I loved when people would remind me that 'No one goes to college in diapers or with a binky, etc.'" As a new parent it is easy to become overwhelmed with what your little one should or shouldn't be doing based on all the expert advice you'll get from books, the internet, and from family and friends. Melissa O’Donnell, a mom blogger in our area, advises, "Don't get caught up in looking forward to what milestones they should be hitting next week or next month. You may miss what they are doing NOW, and that's what's most important!" Take time to treasure each day.

Search Out Local Experts
Media has a wealth of resources and local experts to help support new parents. One of those experts is Jacqueline Kelleher, known by many moms in our area as the owner of the Family BirthMark, formerly a storefront on Monroe Street. As a doula, childbirth educator, and certified lactation counselor, Jackie has supported and advised a great many moms in our area. Author of Nurturing the Family, Jackie's wealth of experience and expertise in birth and postpartum care makes her a local expert new parents will want to get to know. And while BirthMark no longer provides a brick and mortar location, Jackie continues to provide support and services through BirthMark's Facebook community.

Take Care of Yourself
New parents can easily become overwhelmed by all the changes that come with an infant's arrival. New moms in particular often neglect to take care of themselves, attending to everyone else before taking care of their needs. Build healthy habits early by carving out time to attend your needs. Begin before the baby arrives. And Camille Holstein can help.

Camille is a yoga instructor at Enso, located on the west end of State Street in Media. On Thursday evenings she leads a Pre-Natal Yoga Series. And it is something that she is passionate about. "This series aims to empower and educate women supporting them through the use of their breath, yoga practice, meditation, and discussions for labor and beyond. Each class will guide women into deeper connection with themselves, their babies, their community and the beauty of the journey of pregnancy." And once baby arrives, Camille also leads an all-levels class in addition to a power yoga class that offers lots of modifications for beginners and those returning to the practice or building strength. "There isn't a mommy and me class offered here at this time, but I would love to do that, too, if there is enough demand for one," says Camille.

Make Connections
Media has a wealth of groups where new parents can find support and camaraderie. Our library offers a variety of programs for parents and their children, including an weekly Infant Story Times and Petite Playgroups. Be sure to check out their summer schedule for more information.

Another great resource for local moms is Media's MOMS Club. MOMS Club is an international organization which offer support to stay-at-home and work-at-home moms, and our own Media chapter is very active with over 50 members. "The Moms Club is a perfect place to meet other moms and build community connections. We have a calendar of events each month, which have at least one event per weekday. Moms host events such as a playdate at a park, going to a museum, going to lunch, and more," says Michele Wahba, Media MOMS Club Membership Vice President. Interested moms can find more information (and a great list of local playgrounds) on the group's website.


With so many wonderful resources for parents in our neighborhood, it is no wonder that so many families love calling Media home! What other resources can you recommend to new parents in our area? Please share!

Pajama Party!

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My toddler gobbles up stories. The bookshelf right next to his bed is overflowing with Dr. Seuss and dinosaurs, brightly colored pages begging to be read. As soon as the birds start to sing, my husband and I can hear him in his room most mornings shuffling through his books before he patters down the hallway, book in hand, to wake us for a story before breakfast. Before finally closing his eyes at night, he wants someone to read him a story. And throughout the day, there are books strewn across every surface in our home. He loves books. My eight month old also gobbles up books...literally. Board books don't stand a chance with my little drooler. But something they both have in common is a love of the Media-Upper Providence Free Library.

Throughout May, the library has been hosting Pajama Storytime on Monday nights for children between the ages of 2 - 6. Brittany Eastman, the Youth Services Librarian, runs all of the library's storytimes and invites children to come in their pajamas for these special evening storytimes. The Pajama Storytimes last between 30-45 minutes and feature a variety of activities for children. "We start storytime with a song and transition into reading stories. Normally, I will read 4-5 stories, depending on how interested the kids are. In between stories, we might sing a song or do a rhyme or fingerplay or some other activity." Ms. Eastman also organizes a craft to do during each of the story times. It's a great way to introduce little ones to the library and get them excited about reading. But the Pajama Storytimes aren't just fun, they also help to support an important cause - The Pajama Program.

Attendees are encouraged to bring a set of new children's pajamas with them to the storytimes in order to help support the work of the Pajama Program, a non-profit organization working to provide children, many of whom are waiting to be adopted, with new pajamas and books. So far, Ms. Eastman says, the library has collected about 10 pairs of pajamas. "Most of them are for infants or toddlers, but sizes up to adult XXXL are accepted. The pajamas must be new with tags still on them. Donations of money or new children's books are also accepted. We would love to receive more donations of any of these!" Anyone wishing to donate can also bring pajamas or books to the main desk any time the library is open.

Hopefully, you are able to join me and my boys at the next Pajama Storytime on Monday, May 23rd at 7:00pm. I know my little ones will have a great time picking out a few new books to donate. Now if only I can get my toddler to understand what the word "donate" means before Monday night, I'll be all set! And be sure to check out the great schedule of children's activities that the library is offering throughout the spring and summer.

Local Attractions: Fossils Found

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My home has been trampled by dinosaurs. Everywhere you look, you'll find their distinctive marks. Dinosaur stickers cling to a dinosaur themed t-shirt heaped in the laundry basket. A dinosaur pop-up book is left open on the couch. The velociraptor is attempting to claw his way off the page to get to the plastic diplodocus sticking out between the cushions. Ask my two year old son what his favorite animal is, and he replies, "T-rex, Mommy! Raaawwwrr!" We have T-rex temporary tattoos and corythosaurus coloring books. And he's not just interested in their big teeth and bigger roars. Ask him about the corythosaurus and he'll excitedly start honking. Why? Because he's learned that the distinctive shape of this particular dinosaur's head likely indicates its unique ability to communicate through honking. He'll easily identify a stegosaurus because "he's got plates, mommy." I've learned more about dinosaurs from my two year old than I ever thought possible. My son is not just fascinated with fossils, he's passionate about all things petrified. My little man wakes each morning asking if we'll go see fossils today. This morning, I got to say yes.

The Delaware County Institute of Science is nestled on Veterans Square, steps away from Media's County Courthouse. It's a gem, hidden in plain sight. The building, erected in 1867 following the end of the Civil War, has always housed the county's Institute of Science which was started 34 years earlier in 1833 by five gentlemen scientists. In the mid-nineteenth century, when their membership and collection of minerals, artifacts, and specimens grew larger, the Institute went in search of a more permanent home and settled in Media. With three floors open to the public, the Institute's collection of fossils, historic items, and stuffed animals thrilled my little scientist.

We were kindly greeted and lead to the second floor of the museum where my son immediately ran to the spinal bone of a whale sitting on the stage area of the floor. The second floor not only houses an extensive library of books on Pennsylvania and the study of our natural sciences, but it also features a lecture area where the Institute hosts a monthly lecture series between October and May, bringing in a number of well-known scientists and presenters for the public to hear. Satisfied that he was indeed touching the bone of a whale, the kind staff suggested my son check out all the fossils on the third floor. His eyes widened, and he charged for the stairs. There's more?

The third floor is where it's at. Case upon case of coral and petrified wood, fossilized animal and plant remains, stuffed birds and bobcats, a telegraph machine and old model of the solar system, an antique camera and microscope collection, a celestial globe, shark teeth, and the best part, lots of stuff to touch. My son immediately found the "Please touch table." Gingerly picking up the bones of a variety of local wildlife, my son and I took turns guessing what animal each bone belonged to. Then he moved from section to section, pressing his nose to the glass cases. "Look, Mom! Look, Mom!" He ran excitedly to the telegraph machine, reaching out to tap it. Just as I was about to shoo his hand away, I noticed a sign stating that patrons could touch the tapping mechanism. My son and I tapped out S.O.S, the only thing I really know in Morse code, and he was thrilled. The fossils of petrified wood and dinosaur foot prints were a particular favorite, as was the case displaying the jawbones of sharks and alligators. Who knew all of this was right in Media!

The Delaware County Institute of Science is free and open to the public on Mondays, Thursdays, and Saturdays between 9am - 1pm. As we headed down the stairs on our way out, my son pouted, not quite ready to leave. So I promised him that we would come back. And with it being so close, the next time he wakes in the morning asking if we can go see the fossils, I can easily say yes.